Despite the fact that making a Vision Board failed to show
up in Esquire’s list of “84 Things a Man Should do Before He Dies” this month, and despite
the fact that I am not a man – which I suppose precludes me from abiding by
that list anyway – I made a Vision Board this weekend!
While I had started the project about a month or so ago, the Vision Board was my official kickoff to a spiritual and emotional cleanse I’m
going on – a two-week period of some much-needed Sarah soul searching, complete with all that
self-help-y shit that I love: yoga, meditation, self-help books, and a bit of massage and acupuncture sprinkled in. The accompanying
text to my retreat is Dr. Wayne Dyer’s Change Your Thoughts – Change Your Life: Living The Wisdom of the Tao,
which is a contemporary study of the 81 verses of the Tao Te Ching. Similar to how The Power of Now reshaped my thinking, Dyer’s book is already
transformative. Take this gem, for
example:
A composer once told
me that the silence from which each note emerges is more important than the
note itself. He said that it’s the empty
space between the notes that literally allows the music to be music—if there’s
no void, there’s only continuous sound.
And also this:
Have a mind that’s
willing to flow with life and be shaped by the eternal forces of the Tao. See yourself as all of these things . . .
watchful, yet relaxed and peaceful; alert, yet unhurried and confident;
yielding, yet willing to be still and wait for the waters to become clear. . .
. Let go of your demands and trust in the perfecting unfolding of the Tao.
How this connected to the Vision Board process is that reflecting on these passages (in addition to others) forced me to
take an intuitive and relaxed approach to it.
Here are a few things I learned along the way.
My Vision Board |
Develop your Vision
Board in two steps. Since I had
collected my magazine clippings about month ago (a process which for me took
considerable energy even though I freaking love magazines), during Step 2 I had the energy to
sift through what I had previously collected and piece together the ones that
had instinctive, meaning, and/or visual interest to me. I found it interesting that the majority of
the ones I had previously clipped were ones that I wound up placing on
my board, which speaks to the value in trusting our instincts and intuition. Surprisingly, some random images wound up appearing on my board,
which I’m still contemplating the potential meaning of: reindeer, woman running
with cheetahs, and a dog yawning while he waits for his morning coffee. WTF, right?
Only time will tell.
Don’t be limited by
your visual attraction to an image.
My eye was attracted to lots of ocean-themed images, so much as that if
I used them all, my board would’ve consisted of half an ocean. I scaled that back intentionally to make room for other meaningful images, but
nonetheless my board wound up having a strong water element. I don’t know if that implies that I’m meant
to live by the water or if there's a different meaning, but as a Piscean with traits of fluidity and mutability (as symbolized by water), these are the essence of who I am. This, I believe, is contrasted by what I desire in a partner, hence the word "protect" in the upper left-hand corner of the board.
Listen to calming
music (or nothing at all) during your Vision Board process. I am a music junkie, but because I wanted to
hear my flow during my Vision Board-ing, I chose to have contemporary pianist George
Winston playing softly in the background.
If you like that sort of thing, you’ll dig him, if not, Chopin is always
good or anything with an emotionally neutral sound.
Consider layout in
addition to content. But let your
intuition guide you. I let my intuition guide
where I pasted my clippings, but I was also cognizant of subject and
theme. For example, in the center I
pasted a large image centering on relationships – platonic, romantic, familial,
etc., but within that I placed a quote that read: “You want to reveal
what life is like—to show things we may never fully understand.” This was clearly something that resonated with
me on both a philosophical and creative level. At the core, connecting and getting to the depth of someone/something is essential to me. I believe that this is tied to some kind of creative purpose for me.
Let the board speak
for itself and give it time for meaning to unfold. Don’t think too much when you’re compiling
because the outcome will be more surprising and illuminating than you
realize. While clearly love and
relationships are important to me, it occurred to me that the kind of
relationship I desire is not only one that has a strong protection foundation (vital for me),
but also closeness, intimacy, and perhaps adventure.
(Case in point being the couple embracing on the motorcycle and the quote beside
it that says, “Everyday will never be the same.”)
Some Vision Board
experts say to hide your board away after completion, others say to hang it in
a visible spot. I've taken the
latter route and have displayed it because in trusting my intuition I am
confident the board is a symbol of what matters to me and what is in
store. IMHO, having the board be visible – at least
temporarily – is a gentle reminder of that.
In case you're interested in reading more about Vision Boards, I found this article by Martha Beck from O Magazine inspiring.
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